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Post by ElvenChibi on Feb 18, 2008 20:57:25 GMT
Here we go then... I'm fed up, I'm tired, sick and sad... Now, who wants me to draw a tutorial hm? *goes all red in anger* COME ON THEN!! ANY TUTS??? Hands? Fine! No problem... *gets to work...* Chibi basics? FINE!! *gets to work in more anger and shatters tears over her work* I'm sorry, guys, but I'm a fricken bad mood right now... I need cheering up... I really do... I promise to have those hands done by tomorrow though... they're not that hard really... ok? ok? promise? *cries more*
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Post by Chibi Ty on Feb 18, 2008 21:37:05 GMT
Does she usually do this ?
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Post by Life Essence on Feb 19, 2008 1:05:01 GMT
no, *hugs ElvenChibi*
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Post by Xero Necross on Feb 19, 2008 3:55:48 GMT
elvy whats wrong? *hug* seem not your self it worries us (more me than them though)
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Post by Fitzy on Feb 19, 2008 6:27:17 GMT
hey im sure everyones just as worried.. whats up elven?? *hugs*
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Post by Chibi Ty on Feb 19, 2008 18:19:37 GMT
WHAT IS THIS HUG DAY.................OOOH THAT WOULD BE SO COOL IF IT WAS XD
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Post by ElvenChibi on Feb 19, 2008 20:29:51 GMT
I'm sorry guys... I'm just as confused as it is...
My friends turn out not to be my friends and I'm feeling sick and all... I'm just down... I'm not in my normal doings right now...
Anyhow, I have got a tutorial done, like I promised (I always draw those when I say I do).
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Post by danosix on Feb 19, 2008 23:19:47 GMT
You probably don't want to read this but the only way to get over it is to forget them. Don't think bad of them otherwise anger will boil over and you will simply dwell on it for too long. I am not saying it is easy, but it isn't hard either. Not nearly as hard as you may think.
You have probably heard this many times but life is full of shite and smiles. Everyone experiences emotional pain at least once a month, be it in a small way or a big way. What matters is your mental resilience, let it strengthen you.
Although I am not terribly old I have still had my fair share of crap thrown at my face. (Not to be taken literally) I have been betrayed dozens of times, lost many, so called friends and broken down from it. I simply learned to believe that if someone upsets you without a reason, then they are to be pitied, because I doubt others would.
Long story short, the following sentence explains it all in a less deep way: Life is too short. If life screws you over, stick your fingers up at it and walk past smiling.
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Post by Xero Necross on Feb 20, 2008 0:44:12 GMT
ooo nice i actually agree with that though i have to say i have had my fair shar of poo flung at me... literally XD stupid monkeys... and children... is wonder why i dont like children? i got a chalk board full of reasons XD
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Post by Fitzy on Feb 20, 2008 3:10:08 GMT
i guess weve all had crap thorwn at us, and the only way to get past it is to wipe it off, look ahead and keep walking on. there are plenty of people out there that you will make friends with, and for the mean time u have us in here, u have family, just keep in mind that were all behind you, and hopefully knowing that should keep a smile on ur dial.
if a friend is giving u crap its not worth the trouble trying to stick with them.. noone who pourposely attacks you, verbally or otherwise, is worthy of the lable "friend" unless ofcouse they dont mean what they say (jestfull, or just angry, as long as they apologise after)
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Post by Xero Necross on Feb 20, 2008 3:28:40 GMT
yeah me and my friend becky are like that ALL the time... except she never apologies afterwards i just realized that... >< eh owell my feelings dont matter to her then i dont care any ways, but when i offend her i make sure i bed for her forgivness... which is alot... atleast twice or three times a week XD but she knows i never mean it... the only time i offend her is when she gets me mad... which is normally hard... but she seems to bring out the worst in me
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Post by danosix on Feb 20, 2008 11:23:00 GMT
i have had my fair shar of poo flung at me... literally XD stupid monkeys... and children What a lovely thought to wake up to.
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Post by Xero Necross on Feb 21, 2008 3:01:05 GMT
XD
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Post by Tha Chibilover on Feb 21, 2008 7:05:52 GMT
I'm sorry guys... I'm just as confused as it is... My friends turn out not to be my friends and I'm feeling sick and all... I'm just down... I'm not in my normal doings right now... i know how you feel *hugs* ive had that a few times aswell, it feels real bad, the only thing you MUST do and always KEEP doing is looking on the bright side of life... for example when someone dies, im sad, but i say to myself, why be sad if the person who died prolly doesnt want me to be? and then i will do soimething fun to get my thoughts of it.. Just putt extra time in your hobby's and interests, find comfort at your REAL friends, and just try to slowly get over it. this works for me most of the time, and if it doesnt, theres always the possibillity of hitting them straight in the face XD
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Post by shortsoldier on Feb 21, 2008 11:25:24 GMT
Sorry to hear you're not feeling so great elven, I think it's probably best to ignore Chibilovers advice about hitting them in the face thou.
All I can say is spend time doing something you enjoy or try an meet some new people. Just try not to think about it an don't just sit around feeling sorry for yourself (I did that once an it really doesn't help you just slowly feel worse). I hope you start to feel better soon ^_^
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